for the taking.

so you know when you're with someone, there's something special you share between just the two of you. well, once said relationship is over, is that special something theirs for the taking? do they have the right to take that and share that with someone else? even if it's something simple, like say...the song you first kissed to? or a joke of some sort? anything really, is that okay, or am i vindicated in saying it's an asshole thing to do? because if we're all just sharing our special moments, then welcome everyone! welcome to my self-loathing.